There were some similarities between the Subtle-mind practice and the Loving-Kindness practice. Both focused on the breath. Both encourage deep, rhythmic breathing to connect to the mind. However, there were some differences between the two practices as well.
The Loving-Kindness practice encouraged intentionally thinking about a loved one, oneself, strangers and the world, where as the Subtle-Mind practice asked us not to intentionally think of images or people, but instead to intentionally focus on the in and out of the breath. As thoughts enter the mind, we are reminded to acknowledge the thought, but to return the focus back to the in and out breath, and to let the random thoughts evaporate.
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I had a thought as I was finishing this exercise.... I likened this to a desk full of paperwork. When the desk is full of work, cluttered, and out of order, all that you can think about is the work on the desk, each task that needs to be done, (random thoughts and images),etc. But by using this practice, I imagined each of those tasks (thoughts and images) as a piece of paper that needed to be filed. I imagined on the in breath, a folder opening up, and on the out breath- the thought or image going into the folder. On the next in breath, I imaged the folder being filed away and on the out breath, the file cabinet being closed. That way, my thoughts are in a safe place, ready to be accessed at the appropriate time, and I could clear the "clutter" from the desk in my mind. That mental image really helped me to have clarity as I was practicing. I can see where some days, there might be a whole lot more paperwork to be filed than other days, but I think this worked for me! Try it!
Reference:
Dacher, E.S. (2006) Integral health, the path to human flourishing. Laguna Beach, CA: Basic Health Publications, Inc.

Cheri,
ReplyDeleteGreat Job on your blog! I love how you compared this exercise to a desk that is cluttered and all you can think about is work. Once the desk is empty you can think of other things or you can just focus about other tasks at hand.
Cheri,
ReplyDeleteGood contrast on the practices between Sublte Mind and Loving Kindness techniques. I agree with your adaptation of these practices. I like how you use the learned process in clearing your workspace. I will used that in my preparation for my trip to Denver for the Holidays. Both practices carried me into a deep relaxation, in which I loved.
Have a safe and an amazing Holiday with your beautiful family.
Best in Health,
Gilda
Cheri
ReplyDeleteThat was a great post. I loved your analogy to a cluttered desk. That is what my mind seems like every day. And you are very right about practicing these exercises often. It is very difficult to master these techniques and they take a lot of practice to see the effectiveness.
Candace
Cheri,
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful analogy. I am definitely going to try that. It makes perfect sense. By trying something like your idea I believe would make the exercise easier in the sense that you could relate better to what you were working to accomplish. Sometimes working with the mind can be so abstract that I think people have a hard time understanding what they are trying to do, however if you can relate it to something like your example that people do most everyday, they get it.
In Health
Michelle C.
Hi Cheri,
ReplyDeleteNice blog! I too enjoyed this exercise, it was easier for me that the Loving Kindness exercise. But I enjoyed that one too. I to like to meditate in the early morning when my mind isn't so "full", too! And I liked your comparison to a cluttered desk, I thought of this exercise as my daily "To Do" list with items to accomplish being check off one at a time--it was fun! I do like the idea of becoming aware of one's thoughts, letting them pass through one's mind, then fade and not just reacting to them---love it, love it, love it!
Thanks,
Darlene
Doing the Subtle Mind practice shortly after waking is an excellent idea! I think this is when I will start to incorporate my meditation as I had been doing it prior to bedtime and I think it was more difficult for me to focus at the end of the day as opposed to trying it in the early morning. That way things are still quiet in the house and I don't have too much on my mind! Excellent blog this week by the way! Love it!
ReplyDeleteYou must practice a lot to really grasp the exercises and its meaning. I really only done it once, both! They are interesting but I can only enjoy them and understand them when my mind is at ease. So like you, if I would take a nap first I believe I would be okay.
ReplyDeleteHello Cheri,
ReplyDeleteI loved the way you described filing thoughts away, what a great visualization. I also liked the taht this exercise did not require intentional thought.